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Mary Fisken’s high school senior portrait. (Photos courtesy John Fisken)

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John Fisken checks out his new baby sister.

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   The Fisken children, dad John L. and mom Marilyn gather right before John’s high school graduation.

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Mary with her beloved Golden Retrievers, Juliet (left) and Fable.

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Fable comforts her mom during her final days.

She was a fighter, until the very end.

Mary Elizabeth Fisken, 53, younger sister and only sibling of local photographer John Fisken, who provides Coupeville Sports with most of its pics, passed away Tuesday morning after a decade-plus battle with breast cancer.

A former Certified Nursing Aide, she spent her final days in the Richmond Beach Rehab in Shoreline, where she had worked for 15 years, surrounded by family, friends and former co-workers.

I met her near the end of her fight with cancer, when she attended a Coupeville High School volleyball match at which Wolf players dyed her brother’s hair pink in support of Mary’s courage.

The Wolves are dedicating their home match Oct. 18 against Klahowya to Mary’s memory, and will re-dye her brother’s hair and beard pink that night.

Mary was born July 16, 1963 in Seattle, the second child of John L. and Marilyn Dell (Lee) Fisken, and graduated from Roosevelt High School in 1981, a year after her brother.

Her greatest joy in life came from the time she spent with the many pets who entered her life over the years.

An avid pet owner, she was fond of always having dogs in the home.

The first which she could claim as truly “hers” was an Irish Setter named Sophie.

Later she took in a purebred Golden Retriever, Juliet, and kept one of her children, a puppy she named Fable.

They were both deeply loved during their time with Mary.

When she wasn’t working or caring for her dogs, Mary enjoyed making bead and stained glass art and working on jigsaw puzzles.

Ten years ago, she was diagnosed with breast cancer, and she jumped into a long and brave fight with the disease, refusing to bend to its will.

Mary completed 10 three-day cancer walks, which she hailed as her “greatest accomplishment,” and volunteered at countless others.

She was preceded in death by her parents, her father passing May 15, 2008 and her mother this summer (Aug. 8, 2016).

Mary is survived by her brother John, his wife Diane, her niece Kathryn (Fisken) Sooter (and husband Erik) and nephew Michael.

Also surviving are her cousin Nellie Scoular, who she was very close to, three uncles, Robert Jr., Brainard and Roger Lee and her beloved Golden Retriever Fable.

Memorial services are 2 PM, Saturday, Oct. 1 at Richmond Beach Rehab in Shoreline. All are welcome.

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(Photos courtesy John Fisken)

   Marilyn and John Fisken, Sr. were married for 47 years. (Photos courtesy John Fisken)

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With children Mary and John, as our local paparazzi headed into graduation.

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Marilyn (on right) had a long and successful bowling career.

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Present-opening time.

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The Fiskens wed.

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John and Mary with their mom.

She served her country and she served her family.

Marilyn Dell (Lee) Fisken, who passed away Aug. 8 in Seattle, just shy of her 82nd birthday, was a friendly, outgoing woman much loved by her children.

One of those progeny is John Fisken, a man who devotes a considerable amount of his free time to snapping photos which grace the stories here on Coupeville Sports.

And, while I didn’t know his mom very well, the one time I met her, before a Coupeville High School volleyball match where the Wolves were helping to raise funds in honor of John’s sister Mary’s ongoing battle with cancer, she made an immediate impression on me.

She had been ill for some time, fighting her own battles, but she was clear-eyed and warm, a fighter herself, from way back.

As I’ve learned more about her life, my admiration for her only widens.

Marilyn was born in Clarinda, Iowa Sept. 23, 1934, the only daughter of Robert and Rubie (Holbrook) Lee, sister to three brothers — Robert Jr., Brainard and Roger.

She came to Washington when her parents obtained work at Ft. Lewis during World War II, eventually graduating from Tacoma’s Lincoln High School in 1952.

She found her own calling in the military, proudly serving in the United States Navy from 1952-1960, rising to Yeoman 2nd Class.

It was a family tradition, with two of her brothers and her son also serving in the Navy.

After leaving the military behind, the American sailor married the pride of Canada, John Ledlie Fisken, in 1961, and the duo raised two children over the course of a 47-year marriage.

Remembered by those closest to her as a “kind, generous person” who got her greatest joy from her family, Marilyn was always up to something.

An avid bowler for three decades, she transitioned into a wily bridge player in her later years.

Regardless of what activity she might be doing, she was drawn to others, and them to her.

“She was very social and loved having a house full of people,” her son said.

Preceded in death by her parents and her husband, who passed in 2008, Marilyn leaves behind a large, tightly-knit family.

John (and wife Diane), Mary, all three brothers and grandchildren Kathryn (Fisken) Sooter (and husband Erik) and Michael Fisken survive her, as do numerous nieces and nephews.

She is also survived by her beloved great-niece, Nellie Scoular, who lived with Marilyn and her husband for several years.

Later Nellie was a deeply devoted live-in caretaker for both Marilyn and Mary.

Family is planning a memorial for Mrs. Fisken, set for Sunday, Aug. 28, 3 PM at Alderwood Community Church (3403 Alderwood Mall Blvd) in Lynnwood.

As befits a woman who wasn’t fussy, and loved both football and family deeply, dress is casual.

In fact, if you were to show up wearing Seahawk or Husky gear, it would be viewed as a loving tribute to a die-hard fan who wasn’t shy about her loyalties.

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My dad, Marlo Svien (on right) always appreciated a good bargain.

   My dad, Marlo Svien (on right), would be for this, since he always appreciated a good bargain. (Photo courtesy Sarah Kirkconnell)

It’s a sham and it’s a scam.

The Whidbey News-Times, like many other Canadian-owned newspapers, once thought the good times would never end.

Then, Craigslist came along and killed the classified ads business, and panic set in.

They need money to prop up their failing business model and they’ll get it anywhere they can.

So, they decided to stick it to the folks trying to pay tribute to their dearly departed.

The WNT currently charges $15 a column inch to run an obituary. They’ll take your photo and cut it down to two column inches to go with the obit, at a cost of $30.

Having written an obit for a local family in the last week, I can state for a fact that 147 words and a teeny, tiny pic will cost you $150 if you choose Canada.

That’s not very much space to sum up a person’s life. But, you have to choose between thrift and story-telling, unless you’re wiling to let the credit card bill roll up to several hundred dollars.

Until now.

Coupeville Sports is all about bringing the news back to the people, with no pay walls to restrict how and when you get that info.

It’s simple.

For a flat donation of $50, I will run your obit (no word count restriction) and one or two full-sized photos on my blog.

What would cost you considerably through the WNT will no longer break your wallet at a time when you have other things to be concerned about.

If you look at the top of Coupeville Sports, you will see a tab marked Obits. Click on that and you will find a dedicated section where they will be.

This service is open to anyone, regardless of what town they live in. You do not have to be from Coupeville to be honored on Coupeville Sports.

The obits will always be there, for friends, families and interested readers to get a glimpse into your loved one’s life. Once it’s published, it will remain there for the life of the blog.

While I do not have a print edition, you can easily print off the obit from my site if you would like to have a permanent copy. Without having to pay a second time when you purchase a newspaper.

Creating an obituary is not easy. I have done so for too many family members over the past 10 years not to appreciate that.

My hope is by bringing the financial cost down, at least one part of the process becomes significantly less painful.

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