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Remembering Frank Meyer, Sr., and others who passed in 2024.

They will be remembered for how they lived.

As we near the end of 2024 and look back on those who have passed in the last year, a number of them had a sizable impact on Wolf Nation or the town of Coupeville.

From former customers at Videoville to those who spent time in the bleachers at sports events, and beyond, they all added to the story that is being told on the prairie.

We offer our condolences to their families, but also a thank you for sharing them with us.

This isn’t necessarily a complete list, but it is an impressive roll call of men and women who made our community better for their presence.

 

Garth, Olivia, and their children.

Garth Batchelor:

A tireless supporter of Whidbey Island sports, and if he was a little more South Whidbey than Coupeville, tough, we claim him as one of ours as well.

Truly a rock-solid guy, and you can see his memory live on in the actions of his kids, all good athletes and better human beings.

 

Demy Dean

Demy Dean:

She and her husband, Orlan, were fixtures in the Coupeville business community, running Dean Chevrolet and enjoying life with their daughters on Penn Cove.

Described by family as “abundantly creative and full to the brim with knowledge gained through all of her life experiences.

“She had a hack for everything, spent hours on Facebook, made lists upon lists, and loved to sort her ‘stuff’ while wearing red lipstick and clip-on earrings.”

 

Dave Engle

Dave Engle:

One of the kindest human beings I have ever met, a pastor who genuinely cared for each and every one of us, regardless of whether we were part of his “flock.”

Every exchange I had with him, whether at Videoville, in the aisles at Prairie Center, or in the stands at a game, made me feel better.

Without fail.

 

Joe and Connie Lippo with the Wonder Twins, Skyy and Joey.

Joe Lippo:

A Navy man to the core who loved the Red Wings, tried repeatedly to get me to understand the complexities of rowing, and bought me many a hot dog over the years.

We shared the bleachers at games both home and away, and I’m not sure I’ve ever met a parent more committed to being at every game (and dance recital) his kids were in.

Truly a good dude.

 

Cindy McDougall

Cindy McDougall:

A tireless advocate for children (her own and others) who was a bright ray of sunshine during her frequent visits to Videoville back in the day.

One of her sons, Chris, worked with me behind the counter, and was one of our best employees.

Whether she liked the movies I recommended or rolled her eyes at me upon returning her rentals, Cindy was always kind, and I will remember her with great fondness.

 

Gabe McMurray

Gabe McMurray:

In 30+ years of on-again, off-again sports writing here on Whidbey, he was one of the most impressive athletes I have covered.

Whether as a teenager — when he seemed like a man among boys as he carved up foes on the hardwood — or during his return to his alma mater for alumni games, Gabe had a unique presence.

I never saw him once look at a scorebook or ask about his stats. He simply went out, dominated, and then went on with the rest of his life, and left the nattering over stats to others.

The Man, pure and simple.

 

Miriam and Frank Meyer

Frank Meyer, Sr.:

He helped changed my life.

The 12+ years I spent working at Videoville for Frank and his wife, Miriam, was the one stretch of time in my life where my job never felt like work.

In a different world, I’d still be there, getting paid to inhale Reese’s Pieces and babble on about movies while sitting on an ever-growing pile of screener movies.

It was a time.

 

Warren Ove

Warren Ove:

Like Dave Engle, a devout man who showed great kindness to all regardless of whether they shared his faith.

Always warm and welcoming, and his visits to Videoville and Miriam’s Espresso were a master class in showing care and compassion, even when I no longer attended the religious meetings he shared with many of my relatives.

Mr. Ove had a special way about him, and I was always glad to have a moment or two talking with him.

 

Susan Roberts

Susan Roberts:

The quiet power behind the throne for a family which has produced generations of standout Coupeville athletes.

Whether supporting her husband, their sons, or her many grandchildren, when I saw her, I always thought of the same word – graceful.

 

John Rodriguey

John Rodriguey:

The Dude who put Toby’s Tavern on the map, a larger-than-life presence at his grandchildren’s games, and one of the most entertaining Videoville customers from the “olden days.”

Always had a gleam in his eye, always looked like he was up to shenanigans, always one of my favorites.

 

Al Sherman

Al Sherman:

Prairie to his core, a smart, kind man who worked hard to preserve the land where he grew up, and where his family put down roots.

A “conscientious leader and friend, a thoughtful listener who loved a deep and sometimes controversial conversation – which he often lightened up with a farmer joke” who “loved his family above all.”

 

Darlene Sherman

Darlene Sherman:

A farmer’s wife and the backbone of one of the prairie’s most enduring families.

If there was a cause worth supporting, she was there, from her church to the local hospital, to the county election board.

Through it all, she “always had time to talk and make you feel special; like she had been waiting all day to see you and now the day was complete.”

 

FloyDene Van Velkinburgh (far left)

FloyDene Van Velkinburgh:

A Wolf Mom and Wolf Grandma to the core, and an ardent supporter of both her own children and grandchildren, and to any in need.

A tough, resilient woman who gave love unconditionally, and was beloved by many.

 

John Weber

John Weber:

A huge supporter of local events, he was heavily involved with the Arts and Crafts Festival, Coupeville Water Festival, Island County Fair, and the Republicans of Whidbey Island.

Also, a proud member of the Coupeville School Board for 26 years.

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Mary Fisken’s high school senior portrait. (Photos courtesy John Fisken)

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John Fisken checks out his new baby sister.

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   The Fisken children, dad John L. and mom Marilyn gather right before John’s high school graduation.

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Mary with her beloved Golden Retrievers, Juliet (left) and Fable.

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Fable comforts her mom during her final days.

She was a fighter, until the very end.

Mary Elizabeth Fisken, 53, younger sister and only sibling of local photographer John Fisken, who provides Coupeville Sports with most of its pics, passed away Tuesday morning after a decade-plus battle with breast cancer.

A former Certified Nursing Aide, she spent her final days in the Richmond Beach Rehab in Shoreline, where she had worked for 15 years, surrounded by family, friends and former co-workers.

I met her near the end of her fight with cancer, when she attended a Coupeville High School volleyball match at which Wolf players dyed her brother’s hair pink in support of Mary’s courage.

The Wolves are dedicating their home match Oct. 18 against Klahowya to Mary’s memory, and will re-dye her brother’s hair and beard pink that night.

Mary was born July 16, 1963 in Seattle, the second child of John L. and Marilyn Dell (Lee) Fisken, and graduated from Roosevelt High School in 1981, a year after her brother.

Her greatest joy in life came from the time she spent with the many pets who entered her life over the years.

An avid pet owner, she was fond of always having dogs in the home.

The first which she could claim as truly “hers” was an Irish Setter named Sophie.

Later she took in a purebred Golden Retriever, Juliet, and kept one of her children, a puppy she named Fable.

They were both deeply loved during their time with Mary.

When she wasn’t working or caring for her dogs, Mary enjoyed making bead and stained glass art and working on jigsaw puzzles.

Ten years ago, she was diagnosed with breast cancer, and she jumped into a long and brave fight with the disease, refusing to bend to its will.

Mary completed 10 three-day cancer walks, which she hailed as her “greatest accomplishment,” and volunteered at countless others.

She was preceded in death by her parents, her father passing May 15, 2008 and her mother this summer (Aug. 8, 2016).

Mary is survived by her brother John, his wife Diane, her niece Kathryn (Fisken) Sooter (and husband Erik) and nephew Michael.

Also surviving are her cousin Nellie Scoular, who she was very close to, three uncles, Robert Jr., Brainard and Roger Lee and her beloved Golden Retriever Fable.

Memorial services are 2 PM, Saturday, Oct. 1 at Richmond Beach Rehab in Shoreline. All are welcome.

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(Photos courtesy John Fisken)

   Marilyn and John Fisken, Sr. were married for 47 years. (Photos courtesy John Fisken)

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With children Mary and John, as our local paparazzi headed into graduation.

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Marilyn (on right) had a long and successful bowling career.

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Present-opening time.

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The Fiskens wed.

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John and Mary with their mom.

She served her country and she served her family.

Marilyn Dell (Lee) Fisken, who passed away Aug. 8 in Seattle, just shy of her 82nd birthday, was a friendly, outgoing woman much loved by her children.

One of those progeny is John Fisken, a man who devotes a considerable amount of his free time to snapping photos which grace the stories here on Coupeville Sports.

And, while I didn’t know his mom very well, the one time I met her, before a Coupeville High School volleyball match where the Wolves were helping to raise funds in honor of John’s sister Mary’s ongoing battle with cancer, she made an immediate impression on me.

She had been ill for some time, fighting her own battles, but she was clear-eyed and warm, a fighter herself, from way back.

As I’ve learned more about her life, my admiration for her only widens.

Marilyn was born in Clarinda, Iowa Sept. 23, 1934, the only daughter of Robert and Rubie (Holbrook) Lee, sister to three brothers — Robert Jr., Brainard and Roger.

She came to Washington when her parents obtained work at Ft. Lewis during World War II, eventually graduating from Tacoma’s Lincoln High School in 1952.

She found her own calling in the military, proudly serving in the United States Navy from 1952-1960, rising to Yeoman 2nd Class.

It was a family tradition, with two of her brothers and her son also serving in the Navy.

After leaving the military behind, the American sailor married the pride of Canada, John Ledlie Fisken, in 1961, and the duo raised two children over the course of a 47-year marriage.

Remembered by those closest to her as a “kind, generous person” who got her greatest joy from her family, Marilyn was always up to something.

An avid bowler for three decades, she transitioned into a wily bridge player in her later years.

Regardless of what activity she might be doing, she was drawn to others, and them to her.

“She was very social and loved having a house full of people,” her son said.

Preceded in death by her parents and her husband, who passed in 2008, Marilyn leaves behind a large, tightly-knit family.

John (and wife Diane), Mary, all three brothers and grandchildren Kathryn (Fisken) Sooter (and husband Erik) and Michael Fisken survive her, as do numerous nieces and nephews.

She is also survived by her beloved great-niece, Nellie Scoular, who lived with Marilyn and her husband for several years.

Later Nellie was a deeply devoted live-in caretaker for both Marilyn and Mary.

Family is planning a memorial for Mrs. Fisken, set for Sunday, Aug. 28, 3 PM at Alderwood Community Church (3403 Alderwood Mall Blvd) in Lynnwood.

As befits a woman who wasn’t fussy, and loved both football and family deeply, dress is casual.

In fact, if you were to show up wearing Seahawk or Husky gear, it would be viewed as a loving tribute to a die-hard fan who wasn’t shy about her loyalties.

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Bob Engle

Bob Engle

Coupeville was built by farmers.

Bob Engle, who passed away last week, spent all but six months of his 74 years in his hometown, working the land.

The only thing that took him away from Cow Town was military service, when he stepped up and did his duty honorably.

Mr. Engle’s family roots run as deep as anyone and the community will have a chance to honor his life, his family, his work and his enduring legacy Saturday, Nov. 14.

Graveside services will be held at Sunnyside Cemetery at 1 PM, with a tractor/big rig processional starting from the old Lumberman’s (behind Prairie Center) at 12:30.

Those wishing to be part of the tribute should arrive between 12-12:30.

Only fellow prairie legend Dale Sherman is allowed a yellow tractor.

There will be a reception/gathering at the Coupeville High School commons following the graveside service.

Mr. Engle’s obit, created by Wallin Funeral Home:

Robert Alan “Bob” Engle died on October 31, 2015 at Whidbey General Hospital at the age of 74.

Bob was born on October 1, 1941 at the Polly Harpole Maternity Home in Coupeville, to Robert E. and Iris I. (Minahan) Engle.

Bob lived his entire life in Coupeville, except for the six months he was stationed at Ft. Knox, Kentucky.

Bob attended Coupeville High School and graduated in the Class of 1959.

Bob was a farmer all of his life and proud to call himself a farmer.

He started working the family farm as a young boy. At the age of 14, he joined his father and brother Len, forming Robert Engle and Sons Farm.

Bob became the fourth generation farmer to work the family farm that was begun by his great grandfather W.B. Engle and was carried on by his grandfather Carl T. Engle and his father, Robert E. Engle.

Bob was called to active duty with the U.S. Army in 1964 and was honorably discharged six years later after serving his country in the Army Reserves.

Upon completion of Basic Training in Kentucky, Bob returned to Coupeville via a cross-country road trip with his soon-to- be fiancé and in-laws.

Bob proposed to Cheryl Sherman in Pierre, South Dakota.

He then returned to work on the farm; on June 25, 1966, he and Cheryl were married, bringing together two of the largest farm families on the Prairie.

Bob was committed to farming, but he was always ready to lend a hand to anyone.

Whether it was helping with the Methodist Church addition or taking in cattle from the Skagit Valley when the farms were flooded, he was there to support his community.

Bob loved tractors, big trucks, anything John Deere and country music, but most important to him, was his family.

Bob Engle is survived by his wife Cheryl of 49 ½ years, by three children and their spouses: Robert W. and Mary Engle and grandchildren Justin and Harley Engle of Coupeville, Donna and Russell Bailey Jr. and granddaughters McKayla, McKenzie and Mollie, also of Coupeville and Bonnie and Scott Bennett and granddaughter Sydnie of Orange, CA. and by his siblings and their spouses: Jim and Joyce Engle of Pt. Townsend, Len and Terri Engle of Coupeville, Ellen Derkland of Burlington and Jan and Dan Olson of Mt. Vernon.

Numerous nieces and nephews and a wealth of cousins also survive.

Bob was preceded in death by his parents Robert and Iris Engle, his father and mother-in-law Wilbur and Grace Sherman and three brothers-in-law, Edward Morgan (Susan), Roger Purdue (Sara) and Don Derkland (Ellen).

Graveside funeral services will be held at Sunnyside Cemetery, Coupeville on Saturday, November 14, 2015 at 1:00 PM with Rev. David Engle and Rev. Jin Ming Ma officiating.

A tractor procession will begin at 12:30 at the lumber yard behind Red Apple Market. Friends of Bob are invited to join the procession with their tractor or truck.

A Celebration of Life and reception will follow at the Coupeville High School Commons with Gary Wallin, Life Celebrant officiating.

Please visit Bob’s page in the Book of  Memories at www.wallinfuneralhome.com to share memories and condolences.

Memorials may be made to Island County 4-H in Bob’s name.

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My dad, Marlo Svien (on right) always appreciated a good bargain.

   My dad, Marlo Svien (on right), would be for this, since he always appreciated a good bargain. (Photo courtesy Sarah Kirkconnell)

It’s a sham and it’s a scam.

The Whidbey News-Times, like many other Canadian-owned newspapers, once thought the good times would never end.

Then, Craigslist came along and killed the classified ads business, and panic set in.

They need money to prop up their failing business model and they’ll get it anywhere they can.

So, they decided to stick it to the folks trying to pay tribute to their dearly departed.

The WNT currently charges $15 a column inch to run an obituary. They’ll take your photo and cut it down to two column inches to go with the obit, at a cost of $30.

Having written an obit for a local family in the last week, I can state for a fact that 147 words and a teeny, tiny pic will cost you $150 if you choose Canada.

That’s not very much space to sum up a person’s life. But, you have to choose between thrift and story-telling, unless you’re wiling to let the credit card bill roll up to several hundred dollars.

Until now.

Coupeville Sports is all about bringing the news back to the people, with no pay walls to restrict how and when you get that info.

It’s simple.

For a flat donation of $50, I will run your obit (no word count restriction) and one or two full-sized photos on my blog.

What would cost you considerably through the WNT will no longer break your wallet at a time when you have other things to be concerned about.

If you look at the top of Coupeville Sports, you will see a tab marked Obits. Click on that and you will find a dedicated section where they will be.

This service is open to anyone, regardless of what town they live in. You do not have to be from Coupeville to be honored on Coupeville Sports.

The obits will always be there, for friends, families and interested readers to get a glimpse into your loved one’s life. Once it’s published, it will remain there for the life of the blog.

While I do not have a print edition, you can easily print off the obit from my site if you would like to have a permanent copy. Without having to pay a second time when you purchase a newspaper.

Creating an obituary is not easy. I have done so for too many family members over the past 10 years not to appreciate that.

My hope is by bringing the financial cost down, at least one part of the process becomes significantly less painful.

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