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Marlene Grasser with her great niece. (Photo courtesy Ashley Heilig)

Marlene Grasser with her great niece, Mia. (Photos courtesy Ashley Heilig)

A sensational athlete and a better person.

A sensational athlete and a better person.

Coupeville High School will pay tribute to Marlene Grasser during tonight’s basketball doubleheader.

The Wolves are scheduled to play Orcas Island, with the girls varsity game at 3:30, followed by the boys at 5.

Grasser, a two-time CHS Female Athlete of the Year and one of the most beloved, influential athletes to ever wear a Coupeville uniform, passed away this week after a two-year battle with cancer.

A 1987 grad, she was 46.

During her days as a Wolf, Grasser starred in volleyball, basketball, softball and track, then went on to play volleyball in college.

She was inducted into the Coupeville Sports Hall o’ Fame in a class that included three of her contemporaries, Jennie (Cross) Prince, Aimee (Messner) Bishop and Sherry (Bonacci) Roberts, as well as brother-in-law Ron Bagby.

Grasser was that rarity, an athlete who influenced generations of other athletes in her home town, and will continue to do so.

A little taste of the vast outpouring of love which has been directed to her family:

Sherry (Bonacci) Roberts):

Marlene was my athletic role model. She was such an amazing and gifted athlete and one of the nicest people ever.

She always helped me and encouraged me to strive for excellence and become the best I could be.

Emily (Vracin) Kosderka:

Growing up, I admired Marlene SO MUCH–I wanted to be her.

I didn’t even really get to know her, but she was a stud female athlete and a great person — that was enough for me.

I’m so sorry to hear this news and my thoughts and prayers go out to all of her family and friends.

Joli (Smith) Bartell:

This breaks my heart. I think I was about in junior high when I started growing a huge love of playing sports thanks to a few people I watched and looked up to, including Marlene Grasser.

I am pretty sure she was my babysitter when I was little!

I will never forget that name when I think of the greats in CHS sports.

My thoughts and prayers to her friends and family.

Suzan Georges:

I will share this with my 10 year old who has played in the SWISH team for two years now.

Our condolences and prayers go out to all the family!

Her memory and words will live on through Coupeville’s future athletes.

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Marlene Grasser and husband Jim. (Photo courtesy Marlene Grasser)

Marlene Grasser and husband Jim. (Photo courtesy Grasser family)

The enforcers at work. (Photo courtesy Sherry Roberts)

The enforcers at work. (Photo courtesy Sherry Roberts)

This weekend has been punctuated with unbelievable highs and unbelievable lows in Wolf Nation.

Friday and Saturday the Coupeville High School girls’ basketball squad, playing a true team game where every player mattered, where every young woman contributed, soared to new heights.

The Wolves won the Friday Harbor Tip-Off Classic, and the joy that emanated from every photo was about far more than just winning a couple of basketball games.

Those nine young women, who range from a precocious freshman to a wise senior, will remember this weekend long after their hoops careers end.

For the wins, yes. For the title, certainly.

But when the games end and real life begins, it will be the moments they had together, on the court, in the hotel room, on the bus, that will stay with them.

They will remember the shots they made, the defensive assignments they nailed, but they will also remember a moment in the locker room when, arms interlocked, they bounced and screamed as one.

“Who are we? WOLVES!!” “What are we? CHAMPIONS!!!”

They will remember the look in each others eyes at that moment, the sisterhood they had then and will have forever.

Years from now, they will be able to look back and tell their own daughters and sons about it.

It will be a part of their life, a slice of pure joy, for all their days.

And that is an important thing to remember tonight, as word filters out that Marlene Grasser, one of the most accomplished athletes in Coupeville history, has passed away after a battle with cancer.

The 1987 CHS grad was a four-sport star, a dominant athlete who was beloved by those she played with and against.

In an interview two years ago, when I was forcing her to look back on her prep exploits (she finally said yes, because she didn’t want to disappoint close friend and former teammate Sherry (Bonacci) Roberts) Marlene downplayed her records.

What she remembered, what she embraced, years later, was this:

I don’t remember awards, but do remember the fantastic experiences with my teammates.

My best memories are all involving team sports. I looked forward to practices every day and the games were a blast.

I loved my teammates and our mutual competitiveness and cohesiveness.

It is probably what I miss the most and was the hardest to let go of when I graduated.

I hope every current and future athlete in this town really listens to what Marlene said.

And I hope that they are able, every one of them, to embrace her words, live them and look back years later and feel exactly the same that she did.

This weekend is full of great joy. It is full of deep sadness.

A team ascended, a legend departed.

Two stories interwoven by a town, a sport and the heart and soul displayed by young women in different decades.

Grasser would have been proud of this edition of the Wolves and what they have attained, and what they will attain.

She would have loved seeing a team that includes Lindsey Roberts, the daughter of her one-time running mate, playing just like she and Sherry did back in the day.

And every one of those nine young women should be proud to wear the same uniform Grasser once did.

Marlene will be greatly missed, but her spirit will live on, and it will be reflected best every time another young woman steps onto a basketball court and embraces the joy she exhibited every day, every game.

The joy of playing. Of competing. Of walking side-by-side onto the court with friends and walking off with sisters.

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Hall o' Fame inductees (top to bottom) Aimee Bishop, Jennie Prince, Ron Bagby, Marlene Grasser

  Hall o’ Fame inductees (top to bottom) Aimee (Messner) Bishop, Jennie (Cross) Prince, Ron Bagby and Marlene Grasser stack up next to an old school Sherry (Bonacci) Roberts.

And that's how you play defense. (Photo courtesy Sherry Roberts)

And that’s how you play defense. (Photos courtesy Sherry Roberts)

Three Hall o' Famers in one photo

   Four Hall o’ Famers (so far) in one photo, as Grasser (24), Bishop (32) and Roberts (30) join their already-inducted coach, Phyllis Textor.

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   Modern-day Wolf spikers? Roberts (4) and Prince (12) could probably still thump you.

The page hits? They’re never gonna end on this story.

The 11th class inducted into the Coupeville Sports Hall o’ Fame manages to incorporate some of the most beloved, reader-friendly legends in the history of this here town.

It’s almost like I planned it that way…

So, without any further ado, rising up to live under the Legends tab at the top of the blog, I give you Marlene Grasser, Jennie (Cross) Prince, Sherry (Bonacci) Roberts, Aimee (Messner) Bishop and Ron Bagby.

And we just broke the internet.

Our first inductee, Bagby, was the CHS football coach for 25+ years and that alone would probably grant him access to these hallowed digital walls.

He produced an unbeaten team in 1990 and shaped generations of gridiron warriors, but there was, of course, much more to the man.

Basketball and track coach, athletic director and, before that, the dude who led the ENTIRE NATION in punt returns during his sophomore year at the University of Puget Sound.

Bagby in a football uniform was all Forks had going for it before they discovered twinkly vampires, and, barring a leg injury, he was slated to be drafted by the United States Football League, the NFL rival that gave us Doug Flutie, Herschel Walker and Donald Trump.

Instead, Coupeville got him and the rest is (Wolf) history.

Joining him are four of the most talented athletes to traverse the hallways at CHS in the late ’80s, all of whom have gone on to spectacular post-high school success.

Grasser (Class of ’87) was a two-time Athlete of the Year who sparkled in four sports (volleyball, basketball, softball and track) before going on to play college volleyball.

Her running mate, Roberts, once said this about her:

Marlene was my athletic role model. She was such an amazing and gifted athlete and one of the nicest people ever. She always helped me and encouraged me to strive for excellence and become the best I could be.”

Grasser flipped the switch, revealing she still had, and treasured, letters of encouragement Roberts (Class of 1989) wrote her in their younger days.

“I’m the one who thought of Sherry as my role model. She was always so bright and cheery and made the best of any situation. I admired that and strove to be that way too!”

The one-time Bonacci was a four-year letter winner in basketball and volleyball who also went on to play college ball.

An Athlete of the Year honoree herself, the Mrs. Hustle winner later married a Mr. Hustle Winner (Jon Roberts) and their daughter Lindsey is now a CHS freshman poised to wipe out all of their records while flashing the epic smile inherited from her ever-bubbly mom.

If Roberts was usually smiling, Prince (Class of 1990), living up to the Cross family tradition, was a little more intense when glaring at opponents (and sometimes, teammates).

A supremely nice woman off the court, Carson Risner’s mom made no bones about it — she was gonna break you in half and feel damn fine about doing it.

One of the most committed competitors the Wolves have ever had, she was a 12-time letter winner (four each in basketball and volleyball, three in track and one in softball) and her school records in the shot put and discus have never been touched.

Want to capture Jennie back in the day?

In the words of former teammate Georgie Smith:

“I lived in terror of volleyball practice in high school. Bump – set – spike with Jennie and the evil grin she would get when it was her turn to spike!”

And they were friends…

Rounding out our quartet is Bishop (Class of 1988), a three-sport athlete (volleyball, basketball, track) who has gone on to be a very successful (and frequent) runner.

Along the way she produced an Athlete of the Year winner in daughter (and future Hall o’ Famer) Breeanna Messner, earned huge internet fame as the most dependable photo subject in the history of Coupeville Sports and proven herself indispensable keeping Wolf athletics up and running.

And that’s actually how we’re going to induct her into the Hall, as a contributor.

It’s not meant to diminish her athletic accomplishments, but Bishop has made a huge impact as an athletic coordinator at CHS.

All you have to do is go to a game at a different school (say, football at South Whidbey…) and you realize how efficiently she does her job.

The lights stay on, the programs get printed, ice gets to injured players and everyone, and I mean EVERYONE, gets a smile along the way.

Putting her in as a contributor re-links her with her former running mate behind the scenes, Kim Andrews, who was already inducted.

The Kim ‘n Aimee Show, still playing up in the Hall o’ Fame.

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(John Fisken photo)

   Freshmen, embrace the chance to have moments like this in your future. (John Fisken photo)

There is no good reason not to play basketball.

None.

Well, maybe two broken legs. But, other than that, nope, none.

As rumors sweep the land of a mass pre-season exodus from the Coupeville High School girls’ basketball program, primarily by a talented, confident and cohesive freshman class, I wish, for a moment, that those players who are deciding to prematurely end their careers could hop in a time machine.

Go forward ten, twenty years and you will discover what every former high school athlete knows in their later years.

What will haunt you in your later days is the opportunities you passed on, the chances you didn’t take, the memories you didn’t build.

When you speak to those who spent their school days at CHS — whether they won multiple Athlete of the Year awards and went on to play college ball or appeared in a handful of games — they almost always echo the thoughts of Wolf legend Marlene Grasser.

“I don’t remember awards, but do remember the fantastic experiences with my teammates,” Grasser said. “My best memories are all involving team sports. I looked forward to practices every day and the games were a blast.

“I loved my teammates and our mutual competitiveness and cohesiveness,” she added. “It is probably what I miss the most and was the hardest to let go of when I graduated.”

You have a unique opportunity in this town, at this time.

Coupeville sports teams aren’t cutting anyone, and we have a group of coaches (in all sports) who have shown a remarkable touch in making sure every athlete, from top to bottom talent-wise, has a chance to shine.

Makana Stone has shattered school records and is justly applauded, but the biggest roar I have heard at any Wolf sporting event in the past two-plus years was when Julia Felici scored the only basket of her high school basketball career.

A pass-first, second and pretty much always player who was usually looking to set up her teammates, Felici was the last girl on the Coupeville JV girls’ hoops squad to have not collected a basket.

Gently prodded by Wolf coach Amy King, Felici finally put up a shot late in the season.

Actually, she suddenly morphed into Kobe Bryant for one remarkable play, driving, stopping and popping, surprising herself more than anyone.

As the ball swished through the net, the student section went nuts. The parents lost it. King came unglued and the smile on Felici’s face is still there, two years later.

It is a scene played out across the board in numerous sports at CHS.

And, with the rise of Coupeville Sports, you have something else you won’t find at Archbishop Thomas Murphy or King’s, much less at Chimacum.

Regardless of where you land on the talent scale, your exploits will be covered, your memories captured on film and in print.

When I played tennis at Tumwater, a 3A school in the day, I once played first varsity singles in a match against North Mason. Not a single letter of my name appeared in the newspaper.

Now, here, even if you’re camping on the bench, you’re getting a feature story, several mentions in game stories and, very likely, frequent appearances in behind-the-scenes photos.

All you have to do is play.

When I watched the Central Whidbey Little League softball sluggers pound on opposing teams this summer, ten-running all comers, it was like stepping back to the glory days of the late ’90s and early 2000’s.

As they took the field, the Venom players, most of whom are now CHS freshmen, did so with a team-wide confidence that no group of Wolf players had displayed since the days when players like Ashley Bagby-Ellsworth, Tina Lyness and the Black ‘n Blue sisters put those state tournament banners up on the gym wall.

These are exciting times for Wolf fans, and it would be a shame if many of the young women who have such a bright future as athletes, students and Cow Town residents, sit out the winter.

But, as fans and writers, we will survive.

We’ll cheer for the girls who play and write about their exploits, both on the court and in the side moments where camaraderie and memories are forged.

The practices where a skill suddenly blossoms. The pregame shenanigans. The time spent with each other in locker rooms, on buses, grabbing food after a game and terrorizing the Washington State ferry employees.

If you choose not to play, no one can force you to.

And, while a poor turnout would hurt the entire program, especially if it reaches the point where there aren’t enough players to field a JV, the ultimate decision sits in the hands of each young woman.

Young women who I hope look into the future and see what they will be missing if they pass on this opportunity.

Regret often lingers for a long time.

The memories you would make playing ball? Those would stay with you for a lifetime.

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