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It’s never too late to fix the mistakes of the past.

That’s what one longtime Coupeville resident hopes to achieve with an apology for youthful shenanigans.

The CHS grad, who has gone on to have a very positive impact on the community where they grew up and still live, has asked not to be identified, as they don’t want praise for their current actions.

In their words:

 

Around fifty years ago I made a bad decision.

That decision was to follow some peer pressure to enter the high school late one night.

We didn’t break into the school; we just knew a way in that wouldn’t damage anything.

Once inside we just ran around for a bit and then for some reason we decided to each take something as a reminder of our collective mischief.

My item was a tuning fork.

I am ashamed of my actions so long ago and offer my deepest apologies to the school, the faculty and the community that supported me through my education.

Since very shortly after that day I occasionally have been trying to think of a way to make my bad decision right.

I hope by coming forward with this it may help another vulnerable adolescent from bowing to peer pressure and making a bad decision that you may regret. 

I am going to remain anonymous because previously I came forward to admit a mistake that I had made to someone and I ended up getting praise and good thoughts for admitting my errors.

I don’t want or deserve anything good out of this.

I just hope that this admission will help someone else from making a mistake they may regret. 

The tuning fork has long ago disappeared so I can’t return it, so I have made a donation to a scholarship for CHS students.

Again, I sincerely apologize for my mistake. 

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Tiffany Briscoe (left) and Valen Trujillo

   Wolf senior spikers Tiffany Briscoe (left) and Valen Trujillo share a moment in the locker room. (Photo courtesy Trujillo)

May Rose (Sherry Roberts photos)

May Rose and family. (Sherry Roberts photos)

Fanny Duprelle

   Foreign exchange student Fanny Duprelle (red jacket) hangs out with the Renninger clan.

Ally and Bree

   Sports get mixed, as volleyball wild woman Ally Roberts (left) celebrates with soccer sensation Bree Daigneault. (Lisa Edlin photo)

(John Fisken photo)

   Mindy Grove (left) and Sarah Stuurmans take on new personas, channeling their inner Lauren Grove as the senior goalie is honored. (John Fisken photo)

Lauren Grove

The real Grove stands up. (Roberts photos)

Bree Daigneault

Daigneault lets her family get some face time.

Megan DePorter

   Megan DePorter pulls double duty on Senior Night, playing defense for the Wolves while also being a babysitter for her sister.

soccer

The furious five.

It was their night and they responded.

After being celebrated for their accomplishments Tuesday night, eight Coupeville High School seniors — three spikers and five booters — went out and led their teams to big wins.

It was the final regular season home game for Ally Roberts, Valen Trujillo, May Rose, Bree Daigneault, Megan DePorter, Tiffany Briscoe, Lauren Grove and Fanny Duprelle.

Of course, before the butt-whuppin’ of Chimacum began, the Class of 2017 athletes paused for the ritual taking of photos, which you can see above.

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(Sarah Kirkconnell photo)

Me and the youngest nephew. (Sarah Kirkconnell photo)

My mom would have turned 70 today.

Our birthdays are separated by just two days, but this summer will mark eight years since she stopped hitting a new milestone.

As I spend this week at my sister’s, helping her and her family move across town into a new house, I have a chance to see my nephews, who are 16, four and two.

My mom deeply loved her first grandchild and was very proud of the woman my sister had become. She was there for the first eight years of his life, including almost six where she saw him on a regular daily basis, and it meant a lot to her.

Before her illnesses took her down, after a slow, painful chipping away of my mom’s body and spirit, my sister had gotten married and become a successful writer, building an empire that started with hiking and trail food and continues to expand out to this day.

I wrote a lot of newspaper stories, fought with my share of editors, bounced from job to job (with a nice long stay in the comfy confines of the video store world) and never quite put it all together.

So, win some, shake your head at some.

My mom never got a chance to meet my two youngest nephews, and that is too bad.

They would have loved her as much as she would have adored them. She was great at being a grandmother and seeing them blossom would have helped with her own battles.

But, it wasn’t meant to be.

Still, I see a bit of her in each of my nephews.

When the two-year-old chortles to himself, making “bah-hah-hah!!” ring through the room — which is his favorite thing to do right now — I can hear her.

When the four-year-old gazes up at me and goes into a long-winded tale of why he should be allowed to eat whip cream, and only whip cream, for lunch, while making his eyes go all limpid and super-sensitive, I remember my mom’s first rule.

Eat whatever you want for breakfast, and screw the rules, as long as it makes you happy.

And when the 16-year-old gets super-dramatic and pouty, bringin’ down upon his mom what she once brought down upon our mom, I have thoughts.

But, hopefully, I’m smart enough not to say them out loud close enough to my sister to where she can smack me.

Most times, at least…

And when all three boys hunker down over books, I see my mom the most.

She was a librarian and loved books. We got our library cards at an extremely young age and, as we grew up, if you went to find her, 99.8% of the time she was somewhere reading.

Seeing my sister teach her own boys what she was taught by our mom is nice. It keeps her spirit alive.

Because that will never fade, no matter how many years pass.

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Pride of a new generation of Hawk fans. (Oliana Fletcher creation)

Pride of a new generation of Hawk fans. (Oliana Stange creation)

And Ken Stange danced, all day and all night and into the next day. (Wendy McCormick photo)

And Ken Stange danced, all day and all night and into the next day. (Wendy McCormick photo)

I am a die-hard Pittsburgh Steelers fan. That’s not going to change just because the Seahawks are suddenly trendy.

That being said, I have a great deal of respect for the true Hawk fans, the ones who wandered in the desert for many years before finding that elusive oasis.

My one true sports obsession is not the Steelers, however. It is, and has always been, the Portland Trail Blazers.

I was six when they won their title and nine when I started listening to every game on the radio when we lived in the border town of Kelso.

So, I missed Bill Walton.

Twice the Blazers have gone to the NBA finals in my 33 years of fandom, running into Detroit’s Bad Boys and Michael Jordan.

So, that sucked.

From Sam Bowie (a nice guy who gave me an autograph but will never live down being drafted ahead of Jordan, Charles Barkley and John Stockton) through the Jail Blazers, the trading of Clyde Drexler, Brandon Roy’s forced medical retirement, Greg Oden not being Kevin Durant and the Blazers blowing a 15-point fourth-quarter lead in Game 7 of the Western Conference finals to the much-loathed Shaq and Kobe, I have endured.

Against all odds, Portland is the biggest surprise in the NBA this season, 35-14 with two young All-Stars in LaMarcus Aldridge and Damien Lillard.

And yet, these are the Blazers, and I know, deep down, in the name of Walter “The Worthless” Berry, it’s all going to go wrong.

It has to. They’re the Blazers.

I know that’s how Seahawk fans, the long-timers, the ones who know their Tom Flores from their Dan McGwire, have felt for so long.

Maybe, one day, I will know what you are feeling right now.

If nothing else, I can give a platform to one of the true fans, Coupeville High School tennis coach Ken Stange. Here’s a beautiful piece he wrote.

Hope, sometimes it gets answered.

Unless you’re a Trail Blazer fan. Hope doesn’t exist in this dojo.

But, anyway, testify brother Stange. Testify.

Today, as I basked in Seattle’s Super Bowl glory, I took a trip down memory lane.

My family moved to Washington when I was seven, in the summer of ’78. We became instant Seahawk fans. Fall and winter Sundays were marked by supporting our pathetic Seahawks.

In my house, nobody was more vocal than my mother.

She screamed at the TV as if the players and officials could actually hear her. I loved it. Today, I carry on the tradition.

Oh, did the Seahawks stink! Jim Zorn ran as if his very life depended on it, and the most exciting plays were pure trickery. It was all they could manage.

I thought of my mom today, and know that she would have been ecstatic!

I also remembered the many games I attended with my father.

The Kingdome was drab and dull, and the awful turf shortened many a career. However, I loved the place.

The sound was deafening. Sitting in the corner of the end zone, I had a commanding view when the action was at my end of the field.

Binoculars, and the information provided by my father, who always wore headphones so he could listen to the play-by-play, kept me in the action when the team was on the other end of the field.

He provided me with all the info that I’d normally see if I were watching on TV. One needs to have every stat, you know?

In fact, my father provided those stats to the entire section. After all, he was wearing headphones, and never realized just how loud he was.

I think it was the only time that my normally quiet father was that loud!

Subway sandwiches and Seahawk games with dad. Those are fond memories.

I remember all the no-name players, I remember the fake kicks and punts, and I remember Dan Doornink rumbling down the field for an 80-yard TD.

I remember Ground Chuck, and the years that we began to achieve some degree of respectability.

I remember the string of mediocre quarterbacks, including Rick Mirer, and I remember the 2-14 team, too.

I remember the ’05 run, and our team not being able to make the plays necessary to overcome a couple of bad calls.

I recalled last season’s heartbreak in Atlanta.

What I remember most about last season is how my daughter, Oliana, became a hard-core Seahawks fan. She learned how to be passionate about it, just like her father.

My son, Fletcher, thinks we are crazy for being so loud. He doesn’t get it.

Oh, well. Someday, he will understand, and hopefully will join us!

Today, I shared my joy with Oliana. She created the photo I included.

In a couple of decades, maybe she’ll share her love of the Hawks with her own kids, if she chooses to have them.

It was a family affair, and I was all smiles and cheers.

My father called me after the game. I shared with him much of what I just shared with you.

I was all choked up. I’m a sentimental guy, and today my sentimentality paid big dividends.

I know it was just a game played by overpaid athletes. I know in the larger scheme of life, football doesn’t really matter that much.

But today? Today was a beautiful day of distraction.

It was a day of remembering all the good times I’ve had, thanks to the Hawks.

It was a good day for the collective 12th Man. It was a day for me, it was a day for Oliana, it was a day for my dad, and it was a day for my mom.

It was a day of celebration and memory — a day of love.

Go Hawks!

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