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Natalie (Slater) Maneval

Natalie (Slater) Maneval

Katelyn and

Maneval’s children, Katelyn and Dylan, have followed their mom into the sports world.

old school

Old school Natalie.

Be the star, but don’t let it go to your head.

That’s the lesson former Coupeville High School softball sensation Natalie (Slater) Maneval would like to pass on to the next generation of Wolves.

A four-year letter winner and MVP and captain of the team her senior season — she also lettered three years as a volleyball player — the Class of 1994 grad received All-League honors and has a collection of medallions from her high school sports days.

But she also has the humility to know that others helped her achieve her accomplishments and that no one appreciates a diva.

“Never be a cocky player. It’s OK to be when you are out of school and your kids want to know how you played,” Maneval said. “Be nice to your peers and if you’re in the popular crowd, be nice to everyone.

“Have much with those that aren’t in your group once in awhile because, at one point in your life as a kid, you were probably friends with them,” she added. “Study hard and take your classes seriously.”

Maneval, much like twin sister Marissa (Slater) Dixon, greatly enjoyed the three years she spent at CHS. The pair transferred from Oak Harbor after their freshman year.

“I always enjoyed pep assemblies at CHS. I was selected many times to participate in a competition against the other classes. Maybe because I was well liked and an athlete?,” she said. “And our class was a close group of friends.”

She hopes to be remembered as “just a nice person and a small, tough athlete,” and fondly remembers her time on the diamond.

“My favorite sport was softball. Being a team captain and a starter for three years,” Maneval said. “I played left field and second base as a starter for either position, until my senior year, then I moved to shortstop and my best friend wasn’t playing well and coach moved me there during the game and I made a double play the first play.

“I made the newspaper many times for both my sports,” she added. “I sure do miss playing!!!”

An older teammate took her under her wing and provided invaluable guidance, as did her longtime softball coach.

“The person I looked up to was Linda “TC” Cheshier. She was an amazing ball player and I played the same sports,” Maneval said. “She mentored me when I made varsity volleyball my sophomore year and she was a senior. She and I still keep in contact.

“Coach Tom Eller was my coach all my years and I loved him!!!”

After high school, Maneval went on to play softball for two years at Skagit Valley College, then followed that up with rec ball until becoming a mom. She currently coaches her daughter’s team and is the vice president of her town’s softball program.

Always about more than just sports, she worked for the USDA for a decade as a Child Nutrition Specialist, monitoring child day care homes.

Since then Maneval has morphed into a substitute teacher and a personal trainer (picked as one of the best in her state), all while juggling the responsibilities of being a mom to two precocious children, Dylan (12) and Katelyn (9).

In her spare time she stays active, playing football with a team made up of moms to earn money for the local youth football program.

“It’s a lot of fun!!!”

Much like their mom, her children have been athletes since they were old enough to walk.

Dylan has been playing baseball since age three, playing on a U10 All-Star team at age nine in 2013 that went on win a district title and place second in the state.

Katelyn, who Maneval describes as “my clone, the younger me,” has played softball, soccer, basketball and gymnastics and is currently practicing with a select softball program.

While she is thrilled to see her progeny succeed, Maneval is not a stage mom, pushing them relentlessly.

While offering some guidelines, she has allowed her children to find their own ways as athletes, and delights that they are growing up to be similar to her in how they approach the game.

“I have never forced my kids to play and won’t let them when their grades fall,” she said. “I am very excited and a proud mom that my kids love their sports and are good teammates.”

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Brittany Black (left) and girlfriend Megan King.

Brittany Black (left) and girlfriend Megan King.

The Black 'n Blue Sisters, Brittany and Lexie.

  The Black ‘n Blue Sisters, Brittany and Lexie, hanging out in the CHS gym they once ruled.

Brittany Black is a fighter.

On the basketball court, she and older sister Lexie scrapped for every loose ball, fought for every rebound, helping to lead Coupeville High School to some of the best showings in school history.

When you look up at the state tournament banners on the wall in the CHS gym, know that Brittany was a crucial part of the golden years for Wolf girls’ basketball.

After high school she went on to join her sister at the University of Alaska Fairbanks, where the duo played hoops as scholarship athletes.

In recent years, the 2006 CHS grad has resurfaced in Cow Town, working with the Wolf girls’ basketball team as an assistant coach and as a personal trainer.

The years in between high school glory and her latest successes, though, became increasingly dark, as drinking swept away a huge chunk of her life.

As she approaches three years of sobriety, Brittany made the choice to speak about her experiences, in the hope that it would show current Coupeville athletes how life can change for the worse, and how you can change it back for the better.

In her own words:

I started drinking the summer after high school, once I moved to Fairbanks, Alaska for school.

I was blessed to be able to go to a four-year university on a partial scholarship for basketball.

Although there wasn’t a lot of pressure to drink, I felt it necessary because I wasn’t comfortable with myself and felt quite a bit of social anxiety.

In the student-athlete community, parties were plentiful, and that lifestyle continued for the two years I lived there.

It was fun; I made memories I would never want to change.

My drinking started to change after I decided to leave my basketball career behind (due to injury) and move to Bellingham.

Quickly following my move back to the lower 48, my grandpa, whom I was extremely close to, lost his battle with leukemia.

Between his death and the constant guilt trip I held myself in for letting myself “quit” the sport that my identity was so rooted in, I started spiraling.

I tried covering up this inner hostility by drinking; it started as going out almost every night to drink, but quickly turned to drinking in between shifts at work, at work, all night into the early morning.

Yet, I would wake up the next morning to the same inner guilt trip I spent so much time trying to avoid.

I lived in Bellingham for about three years before I moved to Santa Cruz, California for a “fresh start.”

Although I thought a change of location would help curb my addiction, it did not. My time in California lasted a short six months before I hit rock bottom.

My rock bottom was consuming a 750ml bottle of whatever liquor I chose that night, five-six nights a week.

Finally, after hearing about two of my run-ins with the SCPD, I got a phone call from my dad.

He was calling to let me know I would be picking him up from the airport in two days and we were going to have an “adult conversation.”

That conversation consisted of him asking me if I had a problem with alcohol, and if I wanted to move home to get help.

Now, alcoholics generally know they have an issue and continue to deny it.

When my dad asked me that, it was like my disease lay dormant in my mind for those 30 seconds and allowed me to speak freely, and I accepted the help.

Dad stayed with me for a couple days, we packed up my car and drove me back up I-5.

I spent the next six months with my “life team.”

This included drug and alcohol evaluations, an intensive outpatient rehab program (three days a week), my drug and alcohol counselor, and my mental health counselor.

My first day sober was February 27, 2012, and I haven’t looked back.

Alcoholism and addiction are a constant battle.

There are always thoughts and triggers that remind me of the way I used to live my life. But drinking is just not worth it to me anymore.

Although it didn’t have much of an effect on my athleticism, drinking had a detrimental effect on my relationships with family and friends.

My only sister and I rarely spoke, and if we did, it was me being supremely rude to her.

As soon as I got sober, that was one of the first relationships I was lucky enough to reconcile.

Sobriety is the coolest thing I have experienced in my life.

I have reconciled many friendships, allowed myself to rediscover my passion within our basketball community here, but more then that, I have discovered who I am without booze.

I found the love of my life, I accept myself with all of the good and bad that comes with it, and I found the career I want to pursue forever.

I have no defined message I want to get across with my story, but I know that I need to share it.

I could never succeed in ANY part of my success, life or sobriety, without my family and my girlfriend.

Their support through all of the ups-and-downs of me getting clean and continuing to grow through recovery is what keeps me going everyday.

It’s exhausting and still an emotional roller coaster to talk or write about this stuff, but strongly believe it needs to be shared … and with that, I’m off to mold some young basketball minds.

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Marissa (Slater) Dixon, ready for snow patrol.

Marissa (Slater) Dixon, ready for snow patrol.

Dixon passed on the athletic gene to son Jacob and daughter

Dixon passed on the athletic gene to son Jacob and daughter Alicia.

One photo, tons 'o speed. Dixon (top) with

   One photo, tons ‘o speed. Dixon (top) with sister Natalie (middle, left), Misty Sellgren, Mina Khongsavanh (bottom, left) and Christina Palmquist.

Size doesn’t matter.

Marissa (Slater) Dixon might have been low to the ground, but that never stopped her from being one of the more accomplished athletes to come through Coupeville High School.

A true mighty mite, the proud Class of ’94 grad ran the anchor leg for a relay team that smashed the school record in the 4 x 400, went to state in the hurdles, was a strong basketball and soccer player and got college scholarships offers in two separate sports.

Big or small, the body doesn’t matter as much as the heart beating inside the chest of the athlete.

“Don’t let anyone tell you that you are too short for a sport! You prove them wrong,” Dixon said. “It’s not about your size, it’s about how bad you want it, the hard work and time you put into something and your heart.”

That will to win was never more evident than when she and her teammates put their names on the big board with the fastest time any Wolf girls’ relay team had posted up until then.

“I was the anchor and had to run my little heart out cause I can hear the crowd say go, go break that record,” Dixon said.

While she played soccer for ten years, accepting a scholarship to play at Skagit Valley College (she turned down a partial track scholarship to Vanderbilt to stay close to home), track was her passion.

“Track was by far my favorite,” Dixon said. “I love playing and being outside. Loved that it was both an individual and team sport.

“I remember listening to my Walkman sitting next to my boyfriend at the time and trying to think about my next race,” she added. “I loved the adrenaline.”

While running (and hanging out waiting for the next race) she made many life-long friends.

“The teammate that I remember the most is Ryan McManigle (high school sweetheart till my senior year),” Dixon said. “He always pushed me to run my races well. He was my biggest cheer leader.

“Also my close friend Susan Steele. She was also just as fast and Asian like me and we always would say use the ‘Asian Power’,” she added with a laugh. “I would also say Chelsea Grovdahl, Class of ’93 from OHHS. Without her speedy teaching of how to jump hurdles I would never of done so well and ran hurdles for the rest of my high school years.”

After playing soccer and running track at Oak Harbor as a freshman, Dixon transferred to Coupeville. The Wolves didn’t have a soccer program at the time, but Dixon picked up a basketball for two years, where she was a shooting guard “and shot lots of three-pointers.”

Whether the memories revolve around sports, academics or friends, Dixon remembers her time in Cow Town with great joy.

“My fondest memories of CHS were just plainly my entire graduating class of ’94. We were fun!,” Dixon said. “I loved high school; it was a lot of fun. So, too many things to mention.”

After graduating, Dixon went on to work as an airplane mechanic in Everett for a decade (“I loved it, but it gets pretty hard on the body”), and now lives in Illinois with her family.

“I love my life and my family,” she said. “I am married to an amazing man.”

The couple has two children, Alicia, 14, and Jacob, 12, who have both followed in their mom’s athletic footsteps.

Alicia plays volleyball and she is little like me, but she doesn’t care, she plays hard and loves the sport,” Dixon said. “She also loves to ski, which she is amazing at.

Jacob plays tackle football, basketball, volleyball and skis. He can play and excel at any sport.”

Now a stay at home mom, Dixon volunteers as a ski patroller and coaches volleyball.

Working as an assistant at Holy Family Catholic, she helped guide her team to an undefeated record this season, hot on the heels of a conference championship the year before.

Looking back on her high school years, Dixon can see where her teenage athletic success paid off later in life, teaching her discipline and a refusal to give in.

But she is also quick to stress that her accomplishments in the classroom meant just as much, if not more.

“Always help others and cheer on those who need cheering. Work hard, have fun and always be a good teammate,” Dixon said. “Always remember education. It is the most important thing first.

“Your education you receive will last a lifetime.”

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Former Wolf star Ben Biskovich and wife Karin compete in a raceLake Massabesic in New Hampshire

Former Wolf star Ben Biskovich and wife Karin compete in a race around Lake Massabesic in New Hampshire.

The Biskovich family hang out at Banff National Park.

The Biskovich family hang out at Banff National Park.

“I was never the most gifted athlete on the field, but I always felt like I was the smartest and best prepared. No one was going to out work or out hustle me.”

By the time he graduated in 1991, Ben Biskovich had left an indelible mark on Coupeville High School.

A three-sport athlete (co-captain in football and basketball and a state finalist in the 110 high hurdles in track), he might not have been the star (“I was never the MVP, I always got Most Inspirational or the Coach’s Award”), but he was the kind of rock-solid, never-back-down competitor who opponents remember years later.

His example is one that should resonate with every current Wolf.

“Have a great time, it goes fast,” Biskovich said. “Train, practice and play like you’ve got something to prove, like you’re fighting for a roster spot and don’t want to be taken off the field or court, so that afterwards you have no regrets.

“Win or lose you can look at yourself in the mirror and say, “I could not have done anything more”,” he added. “Then take that same attitude and effort into the class room and then the work force.”

Driven by that attitude, Biskovich was a constant surprise, often soaring to heights even he didn’t quite expect.

During his junior year of basketball he was aiming to be the sixth man for the Wolves, only to be tabbed as the team’s starting center over a senior who had a solid four inches on him.

At six-foot-one (“on a good day”), Biskovich was suddenly manning the middle for CHS.

“Everyone was surprised. Was there a shorter team in school history?,” Biskovich said with a chuckle. “I wasn’t a great shooter, they didn’t run any plays to get me open, but I did my job.

“I blocked out, I was tenacious trying to deny my much taller counterpart the ball, I trailed fast breaks at full speed just in case, and I fouled out quite a bit,” he added. “I worked my tail off for that starting spot and continued to do so because I didn’t want to lose it.”

Win or lose, one thing was for certain — Biskovich was going to be up in your grill all night long. Even when the Wolves faced off with Bush, whose SHORTEST player stood six-foot-five.

“If we were losing a basketball game, I would basically do a one-man full-court press and be completely worn out by the end,” he said. “You know, trying to leave it all out on the court, so after the game I could hold my head high and say, I gave it everything, there was nothing else I could have done. They were just better than us tonight.”

His work ethic and competitiveness probably reached its zenith during football, however, when Biskovich led the team in receptions and interceptions his senior season.

That 1990 squad was a perfect 9-0 in the regular season, including a landmark butt-whuppin’ of arch-rival Concrete, and went into the playoffs ranked fifth in the state.

While things ended prematurely, with a windblown home loss in their playoff opener, that Coupeville gridiron team ranks as perhaps the best in school history.

Running “speed demon tailback” Todd Brown behind bruising linemen that included Frank Marti, Brad Haslam, Matt Cross, Todd Smith, Nate Steele, Mark Lester and Chris Frey, the Wolves were hard to stop.

If a team stepped up, quarterback Jason McFadyen was an expert at using a play action pass, often with Biskovich as the target, to tear off huge chunks of yardage.

While the wins were huge, two other things remain as big or bigger in Biskovich’s memory.

The chance to play in front of his family, including his father, who had a long commute, and his mother, who still sports a “#1 Wolf Fan” license plate on her car, was huge.

“My dad drove up from Medford, Oregon to watch every single football game my senior year. Each way traveling nine hours to Coupeville, even farther to Darrington, Concrete and Friday Harbor,” Biskovich said. “When I look back at that season, that’s what stands out most.”

Football also brought him face-to-face with Ron Bagby, the coach who had the deepest impact on him as a young athlete.

“I loved Coach Bagby. I never remember him yelling at us, maybe raising his voice to get our attention, but never grabbing our face-masks and belittling us,” Biskovich said. “I wanted to practice hard and play well because I didn’t want to disappoint him.”

During his sophomore season, Biskovich was brought up from JV after the team’s starting tight end got in trouble. Stepping on the field for the last home game of the 1988 season remains one of his greatest sports memories.

“I had just turned 15. I hadn’t thought about that in a long time, but as I recall, it’s pretty awesome to get called out in front of your home crowd  on a Friday night under the lights for the first time,” he said. “I was so nervous, I just didn’t want to false start.”

During the week of practice leading up to that game, Biskovich ran a route the way he thought Bagby wanted it run, only to have the coach not agree. It became a learning moment for him, one which helped drive him over the next two seasons.

“He called me over, put his arm around me and said, “Biskovich, I thought you were the one kid on this team I would never have to repeat myself to.” Wind out of my sails; I had disappointed him. I would like to think I never did again.”

The lessons he learned during his time at CHS have carried over into real life for Biskovich.

“I use the teamwork analogy all the time at work and in my marriage,” he said. “Everybody has to do their job and trust that everyone else is as well.

“Work ethic — working all summer lifting weights, running and practicing until you throw up, to achieve a goal six months down the road,” Biskovich added. “After being at my current job for a couple of years, I was talking with my boss at a Christmas party and it came up that I played high school football.

“He smiled and said, I should have known as much. Football players know what hard work and teamwork are all about.”

After high school, Biskovich went on to graduate from the University of Washington with a BS in Psychology. He later added a Master’s degree in physical therapy, meeting wife Karin, a high-level triathlete, in grad school.

They now live in New Hampshire with two young daughters and are partners in three physical therapy clinics.

His wife, who finished second in her age group at both the 2014 USAT National Championships and ITU World Championships, spurred Biskovich back into competitive sports.

While he had been a successful short distance man in high school, he had refused to run distance races as an adult (“It’s boring and bad for your knees”), but finally caved and ran a 4th of July 5K.

And he was back.

“I finished OK, I think around 23 or 24 minutes and I was like, “I can do better than that!” I was hooked. I had forgotten how much I missed competition.”

Now Biskovich runs about a dozen road races a year, from 5Ks with daughters Violet and Brynn, to marathons, including the 2013 New York City Marathon.

“I ran a 3:30 this last year in Hartford, which leaves me five minutes from my long term goal of qualifying for Boston … if I was 4 years older,” Biskovich said. “That’s what I love about running. It gives me a something outside of work and kids that I can actually control, short and long term goals.”

With both parents being passionate athletes, the Biskovich children have already picked up a healthy lifestyle. The hardest working man in Wolf Nation is delighted to see his progeny following in his footsteps.

“Work ethic, team work, healthy lifestyle, fun and friends in no particular order,” he said. “They’ve both tried a ton of different sports, you name them, gymnastics, soccer, swim team, 5Ks, triathlons, softball, skiing and most recently basketball and flag football.

Violet is the only girl on the football team and she loves it!”

And why not? It’s a family tradition.

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Jason McFadyen with daughters Kate (left) and Pearl.

Jason McFadyen with daughters Kate (left) and Pearl.

The Four Amigos -- back (l to r) Ben Biskovich, Frank Marti, front (Sean Dillon, McFadyen).

The Four Amigos — back (l to r) Ben Biskovich, Frank Marti, front (Sean Dillon, McFadyen).

It is one of the most memorable images in Coupeville High School sports history.

The photo, from late 1990, shows Wolf football coach Ron Bagby tilting into the wind, watching perhaps the greatest gridiron squad in school history fall in a home playoff game.

The look on his face is one of hope fighting with resignation, and it defines what was a 20+ year career.

CHS was undefeated and ranked fifth in the state going into that playoff game, due in no small part to senior quarterback Jason McFadyen.

A captain who lettered in four sports (football, basketball, track and baseball) while winning numerous awards before graduating in 1991, he remains one of the best to ever carry the Wolf logo into battle.

25 years later, one moment remains firmly lodged in McFadyen’s memory.

“The game that stands out the most is the game at Concrete,” he said. “They were Coupeville’s biggest rival until we switched leagues in the early/mid ’90s.

“Unless I’m mistaken, until we beat them that year no Wolf team had done so — and we beat them handily.”

While he sparkled on the gridiron, the hard-court is where McFadyen’s heart has always lived.

A team captain, he was named First-Team All-Conference as a senior and was the team MVP his final two seasons. His defensive prowess was legendary, twice netting him a position on the league’s All-Defensive team.

“I just always loved it, from my childhood days of shooting hoops till midnight in my backyard with my best friend, Chad, to the days when I “found” a key to the gym and was able to shoot late at night there,” McFadyen said.

And yet, as the years have passed, he has discovered that, as much as he loves basketball, football is the sport that leaves the deepest ache.

“Funny thing is, I thought I’d miss basketball the most after high school, but the sport I missed the most was football,” McFadyen said. “You can play basketball at anytime, join leagues, open gym, but you’ll probably never play full-contact football again…”

McFadyen had a chance to return to his old court this past weekend, when he played on the title-winning team in the annual Tom Roehl Roundball Classic.

Getting a chance to play in the alumni tourney, and honor one of his former coaches, is special for the former Wolf star.

“Coach Roehl was a good coach and an even better person — you can see that in the kind of kids he raised,” McFadyen said. “You don’t really appreciate people at a younger age, but looking back he was definitely someone who deserved respect and appreciation from the kids he coached.

“More speed! Anyone who played for him will recognize that classic quote and repeat it in their best Coach Roehl voice.”

All of his coaches had a big impact on his life, but maybe none more so than Bagby, who ran both the football and basketball programs at the time.

“He always pushed me to be better and work harder,” McFadyen said. “That wasn’t always something we agreed on, but he was the coach, so agree or not, he was right. To this day we remain close friends.

Not that the two didn’t have their moments. But now, years down the road, McFadyen can see what his coach was trying to accomplish.

“One day senior year I got to basketball practice and he was all over me when I didn’t dive for a ball that I could have gotten and he lost it. I mean, it was practice!,” McFadyen said. “For the next two weeks it was like I couldn’t do anything right; he was constantly riding me.

“Finally, we were at Watson Groen and he cornered me in the locker room after the rest of the team had gone out for warm-ups. He asked me what my problem was; I replied, you’re all over me for no reason! What’s YOUR problem, coach??

“He said, “I expect more from you than I do everybody else. Right then, at that moment, I got it. I have never thanked him for that, but I need to.”

But, even with strong coaches, most of life’s lessons came from home, where parents Jack and Carmen McFadyen raised Jason and big sis Aleshia (McFadyen) Mitten.

Along with his All-League honors and MVP awards, McFadyen was an Honorable Mention Academic All American, a US Army Reserve National Scholar Athlete and a member of the National Honor Society.

That dual success, mixing athletics and academics, sprang from the lessons learned from his parents.

“The real mentors in my life were my parents. They taught me responsibility, showed me love, and what it means to be a good person, and eventually a good parent,” McFadyen said. “There wasn’t one game they weren’t at; even if it meant taking off work to drive to Darrington to sit in the rain to watch me play, they were always there.

“I believe I am a good father because of my parents, because of the parents they were.”

McFadyen is now raising two young daughters of his own, eight-year-old Pearl and seven-year-old Kate, and passing on those same lessons.

A licensed Realtor for 12 years, he has worked for Windermere, first in Redmond then back on The Rock that he once fervently sought to escape.

“I was always the guy who wanted to get the Hell off the Island the day after high school and didn’t see myself ever coming back,” McFadyen said. “But, once you get off the Island, you realize there’s no better place to live and raise kids than back home … so I moved back home.”

He’s now happily entrenched on Whidbey with his daughters and “the woman who owns my heart,” Annie Cash.

McFadyen runs Windermere’s property management division, which has taken Best of Whidbey two years running.

He has also served on the Realtor board of directors and the Island County Housing Board and is in his second term as President of the Greater Oak Harbor Chamber of Commerce.

When not working, he stays busy with the women in his life.

And, if his offspring choose to follow in his athletic footsteps, he will be there for them the way his parents were for him.

“We enjoy time on our boat, traveling, golf, and whatever else the girls may think up that day,” McFadyen said.

“I would support my daughters should they decide to get into sports. Both are athletic, and I have coached their T-ball teams,” he added. “But if they decide to get into something other than sports, I will support them completely.”

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