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Bennett Boyles (Photo courtesy Pat Kelley)

   Bennett Boyles, welcome to the Coupeville Sports Hall o’ Fame. (Photos courtesy Pat Kelley)

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The rock outside CHS speaks for us all.

Bennett (Konni Smith photo)

Bennett and his basketball teammates hang out. (Konni Smith photo)

Hall of Fame inductions are normally about looking to the past.

Today, we’re looking to the future.

I want to put a little different spin on today’s ceremony, in which we welcome the 62nd class to be enshrined inside the hallowed digital walls of the Coupeville Sports Hall o’ Fame.

So, let’s open the doors and welcome the youngest inductee in Hall history, and one of the bravest, Bennett Boyles.

After this, he’ll be found up at the top of the blog alongside his athletic brothers and sisters, under the Legends tab.

Bennett is an 11-year-old basketball player, son of Coupeville High School grad Lucienne Rivera, and he has a boundless future on the court and off.

He’s a smart kid, a fun kid, a well-liked kid, a talented kid.

He is also battling through something no one of any age should have to deal with.

Bennett has been fighting (and fighting is the right word) inoperable tumors on his brain stem, undergoing weeks of radiation therapy.

His mom, whose sweetness of spirit still shines years after I first met her at Videoville, his little sister and his family have been with him every step of the way.

So has, in spirit, the community he has called home since birth.

Through fundraisers, through prayer, Coupeville has rallied around Bennett and his family, covering them in love.

Cancer affected my two families — my blood relative one and the other that was comprised of the people I worked with for 12 years in the video store business.

I have seen the fight, and I have seen the fight won.

As important as medicine is, a huge factor often is sheer willpower.

You can not give in to the darkness. You have to know that others love you, and you have to take their strength and make it your own.

So, Bennett, and I want to speak directly to you right now — what I’m giving you today is an invitation.

An invitation to prove my faith in you as an athlete, as a fighter, is very, very justified.

I’m putting you in my Hall o’ Fame because your spirit is unbeatable, because you can, and will, win this fight.

Your induction is deserved and you can stand, shoulder-to-shoulder, with any of your fellow Hall of Famers.

For what you have accomplished in the first 11 years of your life and what you will accomplish in the many years to come.

You will walk back out on that basketball court again, wearing the red and black of Coupeville.

I believe this, we all do, and you should too.

You are us, we are you, and together, we all are one Wolf Nation.

I have my notebook and pen ready, and I will be in the stands the day you return to the court. I promise you that.

Every day that you fight, know we are all by your side.

You are not forgotten. Ever.

You are not alone. Ever.

Bennett, you are a Hall of Famer, every step of the way, every day.

We love you, man. We believe in you. And we will see you on the court again, very soon.

 

In honor of Bennett’s Hall o’ Fame induction, please consider helping him and his family in their fight by popping over to:

https://gobennett.givingfuel.com/go-bennett

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Bennett Boyles (Photo courtesy Pat Kelley)

Bennett Boyles (Photo courtesy Pat Kelley)

Two days until the biggest night of the summer.

People from near and far are expected to pack the Coupeville Rec Hall this Friday, Aug. 19 for an auction fundraiser to help an ailing Wolf hoops star.

Bennett Boyles, 11, finished three weeks of treatment for inoperable tumors on his brain stem and just returned home from Seattle, but he and his family still face a tough road ahead.

Bennett’s teachers at the Ebey Academy have been spearheading fundraisers all summer to help his mom, CHS grad Lucienne Rivera, a single mom of two who had to quit her job to take care of her son.

Friday night the Rec Hall will be jumping to the music of Jacobs Road, with more than 100 items up for auction.

Tickets are $10 and can be bought at the door (the rec hall is at 901 NW Alexander St., across the street from Christopher’s on Whidbey.)

The event, which runs from 6-10 PM, is open to all ages.

Beverages and hors d’oeuvres will be available, with wine and beer offered by donation thanks to Penn Cove Tap Room.

Some of the many items which will be up for auction:

Toby’s Tavern gift basket
Knead & Feed baking class
Framed, signed Steve Largent jersey
A party with Santa
A Seahawks tailgate party
Wine and cheese basket
A wheelbarrow full of beer
Photography sessions
A month of child care at Ebey Academy
Handyman hours
Oak Harbor Cinemas tickets
A fire pit with all the fixings

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Kim Meche (center)

Kim Meche (center) with her players.

The story I wrote in the Whidbey News-Times when Meche left Oak Harbor to take the Coupeville job.

   The story I wrote in the Whidbey News-Times when Meche left Oak Harbor to take the Coupeville job.

Kim Meche was one of the nicest people I have ever met.

She was also one of the most talented, and, ultimately, one of the bravest.

Today is her birthday and that she is not here to celebrate it with her family, friends and the many young women she impacted on the volleyball court is truly sad.

Except, Kim was never one to embrace the sadness, even in her darkest moments. And we should remember that.

Her sense of humor, her compassion for others, her love, never faded, not in the fun times, when she was flying high as a player and coach, or in the lowest of times, when she relentlessly fought cancer to a standstill.

Cancer rarely loses, and the disease will claim that it took Kim.

Except it didn’t.

Through the pain, and the struggle, her smile was there, always. She loved her life, and she fought to hold on to it.

Her body lost the battle in 2013, but her spirit never faded. Not then and not now.

She fought like the Wildcat she was, like the Wolf she was, like the Bulldog she was.

Those three animals represent the three high schools Kim was associated with — Oak Harbor, Coupeville and Stevenson.

She was a superb athlete who became an even better coach, a rarity, and led two separate high schools to state tourneys.

The day she left Oak Harbor, her alma mater, to come to Coupeville, I was Sports Editor at the Whidbey News-Times and got to write the story about the move.

I had worked with her before, and worked with her afterwards, and the one thing which never changed was how she conducted herself.

She wasn’t coaching for the money, she was coaching for love.

I have seen a lot of coaches come and go, and a few just have that magic sparkle, an ability to reach in and touch lives with a few words.

Kim was one of the absolute best.

When she left Coupeville, to go to Stevenson a world away and become an administrator, she left the Coupeville program in the hands of her assistant, Toni Crebbin, and the Wolves never skipped a beat.

As word filtered in of her battles with cancer, everyone who knew her pulled for Kim, rejoiced when she got better, and crashed when she got worse.

The day she passed three communities mourned as one.

But here’s the thing.

Her impact goes on to this day, and it will go on for a very, very long time.

It filters down through every young woman who played for her and now passes on her wisdom to their own children.

It filters down through every person who coached with her, who taught with her, who worked with her.

It filters down through every one of us who talked to her, who listened to her, who remembers her.

Kim Meche was a rare gem in this world, and she will not be forgotten.

When I started my Coupeville Sports Hall o’ Fame, she was the first person I inducted. And really, there is no one else who I even considered other than her for that position.

Some set records. Some change worlds.

She did both.

From all of us who had the chance to know you, Kim, happy birthday. May your spirit burn brightly, today and every day.

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Clear the calendar.

Clear the calendar. (Illustration courtesy Breanne Smedley)

John Fisken is going pink.

And, I might be too. That’s still being negotiated.

The dye job for the travelin’ photo man, who you often see working the sidelines at Coupeville sporting events, will come before the start of this Thursday’s CHS volleyball matches.

The opponent that night is Chimacum, and the result will have a huge impact on the 1A Olympic League playoff race.

But there will be a bigger foe that night, and that is where the pink comes in.

The Wolves will be hosting their annual Dig for the Cure breast cancer awareness night.

Fisken (and probably me) will be getting pinked-up around 3:30 PM, with the Wolf JV taking the court at 3:45. Varsity action is set for around 5 PM.

The photo man is letting his luscious silver locks go pink in honor of his sister Mary, who is traveling to town for the match.

A three-time cancer survivor who has been fighting the good fight for the past decade, she doesn’t know what her brother has planned out with the Wolf players.

I’ve been told she doesn’t read this blog (and why not?!?!?), so, we’re dancing a tricky dance here.

We want to get as many people as possible there for the event, but we don’t want to spoil John’s side surprise for his sister.

So, remember that when you talk about this on social media, please.

The Wolves will be wearing pink jerseys, honoring cancer survivors with roses and raising money for the Susan G. Komen Foundation with a donation bucket at the game.

Sandi Farris, a cancer survivor and honorary coach for the night, will give the Coupeville girls a pregame speech to remind them that, win or lose, the match is big, but the fight against cancer means much more.

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Whidbey firefighters walk the track in full uniform. (John Fisken photos)

Central Whidbey Island Fire and Rescue guys walk the track in full uniform. (John Fisken photos)

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Coupeville’s Rainbow Girls join the fight.

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Every person has a story, and none are forgotten.

Coupeville musician Jim Castaneda performs for the walkers. (Jim Reynolds photo)

Coupeville musician/Christopher’s on Whidbey cook/international heartthrob Jim Castaneda performs for the walkers. (Jim Reynolds photo)

The sounds of cancer getting its fanny kicked could be heard for miles.

The annual American Cancer Society Relay for Life, held at the North Whidbey Middle School in Oak Harbor, drew tons of walkers, well-wishers, support crew, musicians and curious photographers.

To all involved, well done. Never give in.

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